Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Can't fix a liar

Find it odd how I hate surprises? Well, as crazy as this sounds, I think surprises mean that it is easy to lie/ hide things from you.

My mind works in an incredibly messed up way.

See, to plan a surprise, you need to go out, plan things, call a whole bunch of people without your knowledge and most importantly, it involves a lot of good lies :)

It scares me because I really do not like being lied to... white lie or horrible lies... Either one of those don't matter to me... because a lie is a lie.

I also believe that pathological liars can never change. It is a habit that starts from a young age. You start lying to your parents about what you did in school to get out of trouble. Those little lies start getting bigger and you do the same with all of your problems in life because it saves your arse every time.

Stupid thing is, liars always get caught and when they do they end up denying... Its a vicious circle of lies and denial... it is their way of dealing with issues in life.

You can't fix them because that is how they have survived for so many years.

The message to take home with you is... if someone says they're sorry for lying to you and they end up doing it again... They will never change and you will never be able to fix them.

Live a 'perfect' life made up of lies or a life that is imperfect and genuine.

2 comments:

P. Hentermine said...

I really liked the lesson that you have given and it is always said that if we lie once then to hide that lie we have to tell 100 more lies so its better to not to lie.

blu3bell said...

precisely! well said pen